Monday, January 12, 2009

Two posts in one day!

So, here is my second post of the day (I think the last time that happened was probably when we were last in China!)

We just got back to the hotel room, with B. So far so good. I'd like to say everything went off without a hitch, but it didn't. Nothing major, just some anxious moments. We arrived at the adoption centre at about 2:15 p.m. B was not there yet, but we saw him arrive about 10 minutes later. We were receiving B at the same time as a group of about 12 or so families, all from the USA I think. B handled the hand off very well. There were very few tears, and the ones we did get were only about an hour or so later. We were still at the adoption centre at that time. And an hour after that. And an hour after that. All told we were in that room for about 3 hours. But some of the delay was our fault... okay most of it was our fault. Turns out we needed to pay the fees in Yuan, not in American dollars, as we thought we had been told. We didn't have the Yuan (see the post below about our difficulties in getting money exchanged, it continues) and DoT and our guide needed to go to another floor to get the money exchanged at a bank. Luckily there was a bank right in the same building. There was quite a line up though, so it took them about an hour to get the money exchanged. I was quite relieved when they finally got back, as the number of people in the room had dwindled to about 3 or 4 and I had visions of the orphanage director demanding B be handed back. :-)

Anyhow, after we left the adoption centre, we headed for a department store since we found out from the orphanage staff that B drinks from a regular bottle. I had assumed he would either drink from a cup, sippy cup, or bottle specifically for cleft palates. So we didn't bring any regular bottles with us. No problem though, we picked up a couple at the store.

We had supper at the food court of the shopping centre -- yummy noodle soup. We also did some more of the paperwork there. Finally we headed back to our hotel room. We got back at about 7:30 p.m. Since that time B has played with DoT a bit, eaten a couple of cookies, cried some more, and is now trying to drink from one of the bottles we bought. We tried one of the bottles with him shortly after we bought it at the store, and I'm not sure how much water he is getting out of it. He works away at it (ind of like biting the nipple) but I'm not convinced he's getting much out. We go for a visit to the orphanage the day after tomorrow, so I'll ask them to show me there, how he drinks from the bottle. Hope we can get enough liquid into him until then.

We were told again today that he only goes to sleep at 10:00 p.m. and wakes up at 6:00 a.m. He seems pretty tired right now, so I'm hoping he will go sleep before then, but who knows. He's fighting it pretty well, right now.

So, here are a few pictures from the big day...



















And finally, yes, for those of you with sharp eyes... he is eating a sucker and holding a second in one of those pictures. Both of which he was given before he came to meet us. After he stuck the first one in his mouth with the wrapper still on, I took pity on him and unwrapped it for him. Seems he has a sweet tooth. He'll fit into our family just fine. :-)

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations! Thanks for sharing the wonderful pictures with us. Looking forward to meeting Ben in person! Kathy

Unknown said...

Thanks for the photos!

What a sweet little guy.

lb

MC said...

OMG, what a cutie. And he seems to know his way around cameras, giving us a chance to see his little smiles! Crossing my fingers that he will have a good night and you'll all get lots of sleep tonight (which is right now, I guess).

Good luck with the rest of the trip, and all the dreaded paperwork!

MC

Playful Platypus said...

Congratulations on the family expansion! B is a sweetie; hope he takes to you both quickly and easily - and to big sisters when he gets home!

Thanks for the updates and the pictures. Looking forward to the continuing saga...

Anonymous said...

Congratulations !!! What a cutie B is :) I bet his sisters can't wait to meet him. Good Luck with the rest of your trip.... I'm sure B will settle in fine with you guys.
My prayers are with you.
Nancy H.
(yes roomie... I came out of lurking to make my 1st post ever !)

Kohji and Tamara said...

Congratulations to all 5 of you! We're thinking of you all lots this week, and look forward to getting the chance to meet B and see the girls (ok, you two as well, but let's face it, they're all the main attraction) once you're back home and well settled in. Hope the rest of your time flies by without a hitch and that you're all home soon.

Anonymous said...

Hi! Everyone looks great - happy and relaxed!? And I`ve never seen so many pictures of Kathy - normally you see some body part, like her foot, as she races to get out of the picture! B looks wonderful and content - my guess is that he will `balance` his sisters by sleeping peacefully for 10 hours per night! Of course, now that you`re in China, the girls are probably sleeping through the night as well. Keep up the blogs and pictures - looking forward to seeing you when you get home!

CB

Anonymous said...

OK, I couldn't post from work for some reason....aahhh.

I cannot believe what a cutie B is and I have to say that you guys looked in such good form in Shanghi, even after all of that travel.

I hope your first night with B was good and that you are enjoying every moment with him.

We miss you already and can't wait to see you.

SP

Anonymous said...

He is so gorgeous! Congratulations!

Geniers said...

B is beautiful. Congratulations. We're so happy he's settling in so well.

Lisa, Cas, Maddie and Desi said...

Congrats Kathy & Chris. He's a real cutie and you both must be over the moon! It's so cool that we're experiencing the same joy in welcoming our sons so close together but yet continents apart.

Can't wait to meet B. at the picnic.

Sending big hugs from South Africa.

Cas, Lisa, Maddie and Siyabonga

jag said...

These pics got me all teary!! He's BEAUTIFUL and you both look waaay less terrified than you did last time you were in China. :-)

Brian & I look forward to meeting him in person and catching up with you all!

Sending Love,
Jo-Anne xox