Sunday, March 11, 2007

Fugitive father of two...

A few people have told me that they have had trouble in the past with adding a comment to our blog, so for now I've turned off the word verification for comments. As long as I don't start receiving a whole bunch of spam on the blog, I'll leave it off. Hopefully this will mean we get more comments than we have lately (and, come on, just one or two more than 0 would be nice).

On Thursday of this week DoT was driving the minivan with the girls asleep in their car seats. They'd only been asleep about 30 minutes when he pulled up at a red light at an intersection near our house. He said that a few seconds after he'd stopped, a car went through the red light in the lane next to him. There was a police car sitting at the lights in the opposite direction. And what do you think happened next? Well the light turned green, DoT started to continue on his way and the cop pulled him over. For having a dirty licence plate. $110 ticket. He didn't end up having to pay it, but he did have to get the van (or at least the licence plate) washed and present it at the police station within 24hrs. Which he did. Probably the worst part was that dealing with the cop had woken the girls and that was it - no more nap for them that day.

I find this incident a bit frustrating particularly because a few years ago (okay, about 10 years ago) my car was hit by a hit-and-run driver while it was parked near the building where I worked at the time. When the cops came out to the scene of the accident all they did was write it up. And just looking at the damage to my car it was clear that the car that hit me had come out of the driveway across the street. Do you think the cop could bother going up to the door and asking the homeowner if he/she knew anything about it? No. Apparently Ottawa City Police are too busy for that... what with chasing down people who are driving around with a bit of road spray on their licence plates. Sheesh.

This week was not a good week for DoT and the girls. Aside from the traffic incident, both girls were sick this week. I think we got away lucky since E only threw up a couple of times over the span of three days, and A didn't throw up at all... she was just listless and a bit cranky for a day or so. Both seemed to be back to normal today.

Lately, we've been dealing with a lot more slapping between the girls. It seems like this weekend that's been most of their interactions with each other. It never fails that as soon as one of them starts having fun with a toy, the other one decides that looks like something she'd like to do. Which generally ends with both of them throwing a bunch of slaps and crying. And I'm getting tired of breaking it up. I wonder how small hockey helmuts come. Maybe I can just put a helmet and face mask on each of them and, hey, why note throw in some shoulder pads, and let them go at it. I've been told that kids don't really get the concept of sharing until closer to age three, and that just seems like a long way away right now.

Sorry, I don't have any pictures for you today. But, who knows, maybe DoT will post another message soon and he'll have some shots for you.

Have a great week.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad that the police are on the ball. I've noticed a lot of red-light runners lately. Is it the spring air or just aggressive drivers?

With regard to the sibling rivalry (both twins wanting the same toy), it doesn't seem to matter if you get 2 of everything -- they always want the one the other twin has! I found that the only way to deal with this one is that every time "fighting" occurs, I took away the particular toy. If there were 2 of the same toy, I took both away and hid them (otherwise the twins would find a way to climb & get them, including up book shelves, on the top of the fridge, etc.). Both children cried for a while, then would move onto other things to fight over. At 30 now, they finally play nicely together :)

Anonymous said...

Sorry I can't help re the dirty licence fine, or the babies' slapping, but I CAN help by posting a comment!

Anonymous said...

Ok, so I have been one of the delinquents for comments. The way I see it, since you have been back to work, I get all of the news first hand.

Now that I had a 'spare moment' this morning (after delivering CSA!!) I read through the postings that I had not yet read. I love the pictures of the girls in their snowsuits...they look like little Abominable babies!!!

By the way did A win anything on roll-up the rim to win (how cute!!!).

SP

Anonymous said...

Love the postings and the pics -- keep them coming!

Given that today is St. Patrick's Day, I expect we will soon see photos of a couple cute little leprechaun's?? You do want to let them experience all of the crazy Canadian traditions don't you? Just keep them away from the green beer...

PF